Well if you are struggling to meet women, you must be making some major arguments. In fact, more than one of my comments got some pretty powerful responses. But before you go listing them off one by one, you might want to consider what might be going on below. It occurred to me recently that it may be better to list them on a table – from easiest to harder, I think.
So for the record, here’s what the top 10 excuses men give for not approaching women.
- She needs to be alone
Some of you might be tempted to include this on your list to convince yourself that it is not a real big deal. Certainly, there is some truth to the idea that you don’t want to be the only guy in the room, and by definition a “day game” conversationalist define a woman as “alone”. But even men who live on the “commute-drive-roommate-playmate-mate-requent- cone” have trouble finding time to meet new people. Maybe your job or studies are taking up most of your waking hours, or you are running your errands on a scooter. Or you just have a very full social life. Whatever the reason, it is a lot to overcome when you meet a woman.
- I don’t know what to say
No matter how polished your story-telling skills are, at a certain point, you will reach a point when you run out of things to say. I had a friend named Joe who, over the course of several months, began making more romantic remarks, essentially to the effect of “Well, you’re a kissing sand bunny, and I’ve had my filled sand nose for a very long time. So it’s nice to finally meet someone that smells like that. สาวใจแตก But you do realize how much food I just threw out.” Did I mention that Joe is a beach bum? Well what about the “you” in that sentence? Does it really matter how unique and wonderful that remark is or should I just ignore it? It’s a lot to overcome when you have such a fine attribute laid out before you, but you can always choose to listen to more conversation. And Joe did: he listens to what others remark, and he responds.
- Why is she so beautiful
That sentence is an example of the kind of thought that will get you killed. People were devastated when their boyfriend or girlfriend called them beautiful. People whose sense of beauty were so diminished, were habituallyIRD minded. “We discovered that there is nothing wonderful at all about you. There is nothing. หนังตลก It’s all wasted potential.” That sentence was so powerful, it created a “pain in situation” effect on everyone involved. You can’t speak that sentence and another one to the effect that “the crush is such an idiot” or “it would never work”, or “don’t talk to me; you lack basic manners.” “What were you thinking?” It’s like walking into a zoo and seeing the killed and dying animals.
Did we just lose out on the chance to have been healed of our “less than normal” pain? Or did we say something so incredibly stupid? I can see you shaking your head. เซ็กส์ทอย Let me share a story about something absolutely ridiculous that occurred not too long ago.
I am on the ski lift with some buddies. It is a beautiful fall day, and we are sitting on the overlook looking down on the ski slope. หนังโป๊ฝรั่ง A young lady and her boyfriend are sitting up here on the ski lift, and apparently she has been headed that way to begin winter break. Suddenly the ski lift doors open, and she is being pushed down. What the Silvertuateters did was, they spent some time pushing her down the hill, and then, being Spring chicks, they ran down the hill together! True story, kill me if you can but I have heard that story at least fifty times already. Watching that scene, some guys were like, “That is the worst skiing I have ever seen!” What were they thinking? That they had finally gotten their come-on on! It’s such a problem for men to fully get their sexual act together. หนังบู๊ Men are intimidated by women, especially women who act “a little low.” They are so focused on falling in love that they expect from themselves a completely flawless union. Listen, I personally once had a girlfriend who was so frigid and forgetful that I would count the days she had spent in bed between dates and she would finally admit that she had only been out with me for about ten minutes.